Trope-a-Day: What You Are In The Dark
What You Are In The Dark: Teir (honor, in the Eldraeic sense) and the Code of Alphas are very, very clear on this point. Honor is not face or reputation; they are not honor. They are nice rewards for it, but you should throw them away unquestioningly if the necessity to choose between them comes up. It doesn’t matter if no-one else will know; you can never escape knowing, and by knowing, being. (And even if you redact your memory afterwards, you’ll always know that there’s something you couldn’t know.)